Memorials

Working Together to Connect all the Memories and Stories to Capture the Essence of Your Loved One for a Beautiful Heartfelt Ceremony

What is a Memorial Service

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Shared with permission from her loving family | Location: Aoraki Funeral Services
A memorial service is like a funeral, but the body isn't there. Maybe they have been cremated or buried already, or their body cannot be there for another reason.

For a memorial we're can have a ceremony, honouring and remembering our loved ones, perhaps having a photo display and music.

You can have a memorial anytime, even years after they passed away. 
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Some families have several memorials over the years to keep their loved one's memory alive .
If you couldn't attend a funeral or didn't have one for your loved one, please know that you haven't missed your chance.We can still honour and remember them, giving them a beautiful farewell. It's always possible to do so. It is never too late!

Don't Let Distance Stop You 

In 2021, amid border restrictions, I organised a memorial service for a dearly loved father and Oupa.

His two sons and their families were residing in New Zealand while their father had passed away in their hometown in South Africa.

A funeral service had already taken place for their Dad in Cape Town. However, his sons wanted to arrange a gathering here in New Zealand to involve their local family and friends.

​They met with me and we made a plan.
We held a beautiful memorial at one of their homes, where we shared memories, stories, and photos on what would have been their Dad's birthday. Their mother and sister joined us via Zoom to share their experiences.

It was a perfect way for them to honour and remember their father, involving their family in New Zealand and South Africa.

In loving memory of Mr. Alexander Beukman, Cape Town, South Africa.

Memorial Location

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Shared with permission from his loving family | Location: Aoraki Funeral Services
You have the flexibility to choose the location for a memorial. Your loved one's ashes do not need to be present. 

Options may include:
  • A funeral home or chapel
  • Your own home or garden
  • Your loved one's home or garden
  • A school, workplace, or preschool
  • A restaurant or cafe
  • A community hall or sports venue
  • A hotel, golf club, or club
  • Council grounds or a beach
  • An online gathering via Zoom​

The Memorial Ceremony

The ceremony is a pivotal part of the process, and I collaborate closely with you to bring your vision and ideas to life.

You have the freedom to involve friends or family to share memories, readings, songs, or even dances—anything that holds meaning for you.

The ceremony will be what you want and need as a family, with your complete control ensuring it reflects your wishes and preferences.

Let's have a cuppa and an obligation-free chat

I aim to assist you in any way I can during this challenging time.
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I will gently guide and support you and your family with empathy and professionalism throughout the farewell. I will create a meaningful, personalised ceremony with your total input.
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I offer a free no-obligation meeting to discuss what you need. 

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