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Step-by-Step Wedding Vow Guide | Craft Personalised Promises For Your " I Do's"

Crafting the Perfect Wedding Vows

Feeling nervous about writing your vows? Don't be, I've got you covered.
Your wedding day celebrates love, commitment, and the unique connection you share with your partner. And there's no better way to express that love than by writing your own wedding vows. However, it's common to feel overwhelmed when faced with a blank page and the weight of the momentous occasion ahead. 

You might have turned to Google for guidance, only to be bombarded with many tips and advice.

​Fear not! I have written this step-by-step guide; as an experienced Wedding Celebrant from Timaru, South Canterbury, I will walk you through crafting heartfelt and memorable wedding vows. Whether you're a wordsmith or not, these guidelines will help you find the perfect words to say "I do" with sincerity and love.

Let's Do This!

1)  Begin Together:
When you and your partner decide to write your own vows, it's a beautiful way to personalise your ceremony. However, that initial excitement can quickly turn into uncertainty. Where do you even start? It's a common question, and I'm here to help you find your way.

2)  The Vast Sea of Advice:
A quick Google search will reveal many articles offering vow-writing tips. It's easy to get overwhelmed but remember, as your wedding celebrant, I am just a conversation away. Feel free to reach out if you're stressed or need clarification about where to start. I'm here to support you.


3) Offering a Helping Hand:
Beyond just advice, I extend a helping hand by offering assistance in crafting your vows. I can work with one or both of you to ensure your words truly reflect your love. Once we've created them, I'll keep a copy to ensure everything goes smoothly on your big day.


4)  Heartfelt Conversations:
To kickstart the vow-writing process, have a deep, sincere conversation with your partner. Share your love and what you cherish most about each other. This conversation will not only bring you closer but also inspire your vows.
5)  Journey Down Memory Lane: 
Find a quiet space to reflect on your journey together. Think about your first meeting, your first kiss, and how your partner has positively impacted your life. These memories will infuse your vows with authenticity.

6). Start Early:
Remember, writing your vows isn't something to be left at the last minute. Start early to give your words the time they deserve. You want your soon-to-be spouse to know how much they mean to you.


7)  Setting the Right Tone:
Your vows should have a tone representing both of you. Discuss this with your partner, whether you want them to be romantic and tear-jerking or light-hearted and humorous. You must be both on the same page.


8) The Length Dilemma:
Agree on the approximate length of your vows together. Balance is crucial so no one feels rushed or overly lengthy during this emotional moment.
9)  Seeking Inspiration:
Look to your love story for inspiration or seek it from others. A romantic getaway can be the perfect time to voice record all the wonderful things you love about your partner. These recordings can serve as a wellspring of inspiration.


Visit My Blog HERE for a VOW TEMPLATE to Get Those Ideas Flowing

10)  From the Heart:
Your vows should be sincere and heartfelt. They are promises made exclusively for each other, and authenticity is key.


11)  Ignore External Expectations:
Your vows are your personal promises. Don't concern yourselves with what others may think. Your relationship is unique, and your vows should reflect that uniqueness.


12)  Preparing for the Big Moment:
Consider the acoustics of your venue if you plan to read your vows in front of family and friends. Smaller weddings might not need a sound system, but it's wise to test it beforehand
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13). Practice Makes Perfect:
Rehearse your vows to become comfortable with the words and emotions they convey. Recording yourself and playing it back can help you fine-tune your delivery.
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14)  No Pressure:
You don't have to be a professional writer or speaker. Your genuine love and commitment are what truly matter. Embrace who you are, and let your words flow naturally.


15) Celebrating the Support:
Remember that I'm here to support you. If you ever feel overwhelmed, I can take care of the vow writing, leaving you with the essential legal words. You're not alone in this journey.


16)  Embrace the Moment:
Finally, take a deep breath and cherish every moment of this extraordinary journey. Your wedding day is a celebration of love, and your vows are a testament to your unique bond.
Wedding couple and Jade Whaley Timaru Celebrant with hands in air after their wedding ceremony at Stonebridge Wedding and Events, Geraldine, South Canterbury
Ashleigh + Josh May 2023 | Photo: Jessica Leigh Imagery| Stonebridge Wedding Venue, Geraldine
​Your wedding vows are the pinnacle of your ceremony, where you declare your love and commitment to each other. Crafting them should be a heartfelt and memorable experience, and I'm here to ensure it is just that. 

With my step-by-step guide, we'll create vows that resonate with your unique love story.

​So, relax, savour the process, and let your love shine through in your wedding vows. 
Love, Jade x

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Tala + Jake had a ceremony full of family and love in Blenheim in August 2023. | Photo: Elliott Papps Photography
"​We can meet at my home in Queen Street, at a local cafe or bar, or we can zoom!

Let's chat and discuss what you want and need.
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If you don't know what you want in a ceremony ​- ​not a problem, I am full of good ideas!"


Love, ​Jade x
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  • Wedding Celebrant
    • Celebrant + MC Combo Ultimate $999.
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