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Ritual and Reflection: Embracing the Winter Solstice in NZ

6/20/2023

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​Harness into the transformative energy of The Winter Solstice in Aotearoa, New Zealand. Have a cleansing fire ritual to release, enjoy personal reflection, nurture your soul and find solace in rest and reflection.

Winter Solstice in NZ: Symbolism, Rituals, and Personal Growth

​The Winter Solstice is a special moment when the Sun's cycle reaches a turning point. It brings us the longest and darkest night of the year but signifies that light is returning and new growth is coming.

Even in winter, the Sun's rays penetrate and nourish the dormant life below the soil. Seeds buried in the Earth will eventually sprout and thrive when touched by the warmth of the Sun. Symbolically it reminds us we have the potential to rise from our darkness and embrace the new energy that life has to offer.

The Next Winter Solstice 2024 falls on Friday 21st June at 08:50 a.m. in New Zealand.
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​During winter, nature lies in a state of hibernation, inviting us to find solace in rest and introspection before the gradual awakening and the journey towards brighter days.


The energy of winter beckons us to turn inward, delving into the fruitful darkness and silence that holds the deepest yearnings of our souls and the wellspring of new inspirations. By consciously aligning our awareness with the cycles of nature, we can deepen our understanding of our own personal growth and transformation.

Why do we often suppress and hide our darkness, shying away from negative emotions when they arise?

We may view them as inconvenient, uncomfortable, or even wrong. When we fear our own darkness, we inadvertently disconnect ourselves from a wellspring of personal power. It is not about allowing darkness to overwhelm our lives or thoughts; instead, it is about recognising that darkness can catalyse tremendous personal growth and transformation—perhaps even a path to enlightenment.

When we allow ourselves to experience our emotions and embrace our darkness fully, we create a spiritual cradle where our inner light and new life can be born. Our feelings serve as guideposts, leading us towards our truth and authenticity.

The Winter Solstice represents the great stillness before the Sun's strength grows, gradually lengthening the days. It offers us an opportunity to find respite and engage in deep reflection.

The term "solstice" derives from the Latin words "sol", meaning "the sun" and "sistere", meaning "to make stand." During this time, the Earth's axis pauses, shifts, and changes direction.

We experience the power of the standstill and the transformative shift for three days surrounding the Solstice. 

The Sun's momentary pause becomes a powerful metaphor for the energy available to us during the Winter Solstice—an energy that can empower us to change the direction of our lives with intention and embrace the coming year. 
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Take Time to Pause and Reflect.
Take this moment to rest in the peace of darkness, knowing that the changing of seasons and the return of brighter days are on the horizon. Remember that you are always connected to your Source (Universe/Devine/God/Gaia/Goddess) and that your inner light never diminishes.

Do not pressure yourself to make immediate changes or action in the external world. Instead, slowly allow the energies of new life and inspiration to build within you.

By the arrival of spring, you will find yourself bursting with new energy and ideas. This is the natural ebb and flow of personal growth and change. As you consistently nurture yourself with compassion, embracing periods of rest and reflection, the harvest of great joy awaits you in the year ahead.


Consider honouring and acknowledging the endings and new beginnings in your life through a ceremony or personal ritual. Such rituals can bridge your past and future, creating space for what you desire in the coming year. 

Some ideas to inspire your own personal rituals:

Ritual of Light: 
Since the Winter Solstice is associated with light, celebrate by adorning your surroundings with string lights, sparklers, or candles.
  • Soak in a bath surrounded by tealights or
  • Create a sacred circle for yourself or others. 
  • Join a community bonfire or festival

I enjoy a fire ritual for the Winter Solstice. You can do this at your own home. If you have a log burner or open fire, you could use that or have a brazier for an outdoor fire. 

Fire Ceremony for Release and Rebirth:
  1. Take a moment to honour the endings and beginnings in your life through a ceremony of release and renewal.
  2. Create an offering that symbolises the past and offer it to the Spirit of Fire as a completion.
  3. Spend time dreaming and envisioning what you want to experience and manifest in the coming year. This ceremony can be conducted individually or with a group.
  4. Provide everyone small pieces of paper and pencils, allowing each person to write down what they wish to release.
  5. Gather around a fire and, one by one, throw the pieces of paper into the flames, symbolising the release of what no longer serves you.
  6. Consider concluding the ritual by expressing gratitude for the blessings in your life or by creating celebratory sounds through drums, noise makers, or singing, sending your prayers to the Universe with joy and celebration.

As we approach the year's end and the light's rebirth, remember that people worldwide are kindling their own fires, embracing the spirit of celebration and renewal.

May abundant blessings accompany you in the coming year as you make peace with the darkness, embrace the wisdom of the Winter Solstice, and allow your inner light to shine brightly upon the world.

New Year Connection:
It is important to note that the timing of the New Year varies across different cultures and regions. The New Year is around ten days after the Winter Solstice in the Northern Hemisphere. In New Zealand, the New Year traditionally was in summer due to the influence of the English calendar. The English New Year's Day observed on 1st January, lacks any inherent astronomical significance. 

Numerous cultures celebrate their New Year's on different dates, showcasing the diversity and richness of human traditions. Among these cultures are the Chinese, Indian, and Maori, each having unique customs and rituals associated with the onset of the new year.

For Maori, their New Year is tied to Matariki—a celestial event centred around the rising Pleiades star formation in the night sky. This occurrence serves as a celestial signifier, heralding the commencement of the new lunar year. It is a time when the Maori community gathers to honour their ancestral roots, express gratitude, and embrace new beginnings. 

New Zealand now recognises the significance and importance of Matariki and now has a public holiday to honour the tradition. I decided to recognise my New Year with Matariki, so The Winter Solstice is the perfect time to prepare for the upcoming year. 

I would love to hear about your Winter Solstice Ritual or experience.
Love, Jade x
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